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I’m Becca Ruffalo — a twenty-something who lives for traveling. This is where I share the process behind the destinations: how to plan better trips, stretch your budget, and leave each place inspired to book the next one.
Read My StoryWatching the sun melt into the Aegean from the cliffs of Oia — the whole village going quiet as the sky turns pink and gold — is exactly the kind of moment that makes you plan the next trip before this one is even over.
Explore the full bucket list — experiences I can personally recommend alongside the destinations still on the horizon.
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Neighborhood by neighborhood. Meal by meal. The cities I know best.
Italy · City Guide
A thoughtful weekend guide to Italy’s most misunderstood city. Spending four months living here showed me how much beauty exists beneath the surface.
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A warm, romantic weekend in Spain’s most colorful city — golden plazas, live flamenco, and tapas bars that go until midnight.
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Sun-washed and cinematic — pastel buildings cascading down steep hills, yellow trams rattling through narrow streets, and the Tagus shimmering at every turn.
View the Plan →Italy · City Guide
A thoughtful weekend guide to Italy’s most misunderstood city. Spending four months living here showed me how much beauty exists beneath the surface.
Read the Guide →Aspirational excursions worth booking.
Friday to Sunday, fully planned.
Spain · 3 Days
A warm, romantic weekend in Spain’s most colorful city — golden plazas, live flamenco, and tapas bars that go until midnight.
View the Plan →Portugal · 3 Days
Sun-washed and cinematic — pastel buildings cascading down steep hills, yellow trams rattling through narrow streets, and the Tagus shimmering at every turn.
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A thoughtful weekend guide to Italy’s most misunderstood city.
If you ask someone who’s been to Milan what they thought of it, you’ll probably get mixed reviews. Some will call it a day trip; others will say it was boring. Many skip it altogether in favor of cities like Florence, Venice, or Rome.
Spending four months living here showed me just how misunderstood Milan really is. Its beauty isn’t in checking off major sights (though there are a few worth seeing), but in what exists beneath the surface. Milan is a city for walking aimlessly — stumbling upon quiet plazas and leafy parks. It’s aperitivo and long dinners shared with good people and great food. It’s for fashion lovers and casual admirers alike, whether you’re browsing shop windows or taking in the city’s unmatched street style. It’s Lake Como just an easy day trip away, and luxury outlets waiting just beyond the city.
Milan is the kind of place that’s easy to call home — and even easier to miss once you leave. It stays with you, quietly, long after the trip ends.
This guide is meant to help you experience Milan the way I came to love it — slowly, without a checklist, and with room to wander.
Galleria Vittorio Emanuele II — the world’s oldest shopping mall, and one of Milan’s most breathtaking spaces.
As all big cities do, Milan has a plethora of neighborhoods to explore. Today I have chosen 4 to highlight (in no particular order) based on my experience there that will give you a well-rounded perspective of Milan’s landscape.
The Brera neighborhood is Milan at its most polished. Swanky, upscale, and understated yet glamourous. Brera is home to some of Milan’s most delicious food and the true luxury fashion scene. The Milanese elite don’t buy their designer bags in the Galleria; they shop in the quieter, more discreet boutiques tucked away in Brera. Beyond its restaurants and fashion houses, Brera’s cobblestoned streets are lined with small boutiques filled with clothing and art; curated, carefully chosen, and waiting to be discovered. Sometimes during fashion week, you might even stumble upon a free exhibit or a live art display, the kind that appears unexpectedly and disappears just as quickly.
✦ ✦ ✦ Brera RecommendationsOsteria Da Fortunata
Watch Italian Nonnas hand roll fresh pasta. Worth every ounce of its TikTok hype, this is the type of place you come back to again and again.
Gloria Osteria Milano
As glamorous as it is delicious, Gloria Osteria is a chic restaurant perfect for a dinner for authentic Italian food with a twist including fresh pasta served in a giant parmesan cheese wheel!
Navigli is the sparkling picture of Milan after dark. On the banks of sprawling canals, this district is the heart of Milan’s aperitivo and local nightlife culture. Whether it’s a fun cocktail with a spread of savory snacks, card games and a beer tower at La Fontanella, or dancing the night away, Navigli has something for everyone. Evenings here unfold naturally. Navigli is about atmosphere, spontaneity, and the kind of nights that don’t need much of an agenda.
✦ ✦ ✦ Navigli RecommendationsDeAmicis Uno — The Best Aperitivo in Italy
A true local hidden gem, this bar offers a wide range of cocktails and a LARGE snack spread for only 5 Euros per person.
La Fontanella — The Perfect Pregame Hangout
With creative beer towers and boardgames at picnic tables, La Fontanella is the perfect place for a group to pregame or enjoy a night of casual fun.
Centro Storico is the Milan you expect to see from pictures. From the stunning white limestone Duomo to the light reflecting off the Galleria’s glass windows, this neighborhood sits at the center of Milan’s tourism. As the true heart of the city, much of Milan’s magic lives here. Take time to soak up the history, fashion, glamour, and shopping — and don’t forget to grab some gelato.
✦ ✦ ✦ Centro Storico — SightsThe Duomo
In all of its bright white limestone glory, this is the true center of Milan. The best view is front and center of the plaza, but don’t skip getting tickets to go inside & see the Duomo’s stunning stained glass and rooftop gargoyles.
The Last Supper
One of the most famous artworks in the world, Leonardo da Vinci’s Last Supper is tucked inside a quiet convent dining hall and is absolutely worth planning ahead for — tickets sell out fast, but seeing it in person feels surreal.
The Galleria
Impossible to miss on the left of the Duomo, the Galleria is a stunning architectural feat filled with upscale restaurants & luxury shopping.
Terrazza Aperol
Above the Galleria, overlooking the Duomo, this terrace is a view you will not want to miss. Skip the food here and treat yourself to an overpriced Aperol Spritz with an unmatched perspective of the Duomo.
Savini (Gelato)
Conveniently located directly inside the Galleria, this is one of my favorite Gelato spots in Milan. Be sure to try stracciatella, Milan’s local flavor.
Charleston
While slightly touristy, Charleston’s tomato and burrata pizza is to die for and conveniently located a 5 minute walk from the Duomo for a quick snack.
La Corte di San Maurilio Duomo Milano
The cutest little restaurant tucked away on a residential street near the Duomo. Be sure to make a reservation as this restaurant is a one man show, owned and operated by a kind older Italian man named Mauricio. Arrive with a knock on the door and Mauricio will show you to your table and then personally prepare you the most delicious burrata & amatriciana in Milan.
A few meals and moments that stayed with me long after I left.
Burrata with bruschetta & the legendary tiramisu at Osteria Da Fortunata
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Everyone needs a bit of inspiration from time to time. With a world so vast and beautiful it can be hard to narrow down your next destination. To help guide your next adventure, I’ve curated a list of bucket-list experiences — some I can personally recommend, and others I’m still dreaming of — to inspire your next vision board.
County Clare · Ireland
Paris · France
Chiang Mai · Thailand
Rome · Italy
Santorini · Greece
Blue Lagoon · Malta
Plaza de España · Seville, Spain
La Fontelina, Capri · Italy
Keukenhof Gardens · Amsterdam
Alfama · Lisbon, Portugal
“With a world so vast and beautiful, it can be hard to narrow down your next destination.”
The list that keeps the wanderlust alive.
Eighteen countries and counting. Tap any destination to explore the guide.
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Coming SoonBudget Travel Hacks
Coming SoonOne of the questions I’m asked most often after a trip is, how did you even find that? There isn’t a single answer. I genuinely love the search — the late-night digging, comparing, clicking through maps and menus until something finally feels right. Over time, I’ve built a collection of free tools that help me find the best prices and the most interesting experiences — and I’m sharing them here.
It’s also worth noting that my travel style lives somewhere between backpacking and luxury. I don’t aim for either extreme. My goal is always the best experience for the money spent, while staying safe, comfortable, and unhurried.
Skyscanner
My starting point for almost every trip. Skyscanner is best for comparing routes across airlines and surfacing cheaper or more flexible options I wouldn’t have thought to search manually. It’s especially useful when I’m open to different departure airports or dates. My favorite feature is putting in my airport of choice, round trip, and the dates I am free to travel and then selecting the “everywhere” option which will show you the most affordable destinations for that time.
Google Flights
Once I have a general sense of pricing, I switch to Google Flights. It’s excellent for tracking price changes, understanding what’s “normal” for a route, and quickly comparing day-by-day costs. If I’m timing a booking, this is the tool I trust most.
Expedia
Reliable, straightforward, and good for hotels. I like Expedia when I want flexibility, clear cancellation policies, or to bundle stays with other bookings. It showcases hotels, VRBOs, and temporary apartments. Users tend to write detailed and helpful reviews which I use as a guide. My rule is: any place with a review score above a 7 with 100+ reviews will probably be a decent stay.
Hotwire
Hotwire is for deals with intention. I use it when I’m comfortable trading exact hotel names for lower prices. The website typically gives you 3 potential hotels and will reveal the one you get after you book. It is good for those who can research extensively enough to figure out which hotel you will get via reverse image search or if you have flexibility in location and brand name.
Airbnb
Best for longer stays or when I want to feel settled in a neighborhood. I’m selective here — I prioritize walkability, natural light, and realistic reviews over novelty. With prices increasing in general, Airbnb is not always the cheapest option but it depends on destination and time of year.
Omio (Europe Specific)
Omio is my favorite tool for figuring out how to get from point A to point B in Europe. It compares flights, trains, buses, and ferries all in one place, which makes it easy to choose the fastest, cheapest, or most convenient option.
Expedia (Rental Cars)
When I need a rental car, I usually start with Expedia to compare prices across companies quickly. It’s straightforward, shows total pricing clearly, and makes it easy to filter by pickup location, transmission type, and insurance options.
ChatGPT
I use ChatGPT to connect all the dots. It helps me turn scattered ideas into a realistic itinerary, estimate travel times, sanity-check routes, and optimize day-by-day plans. It’s especially useful for answering questions like “does this order make sense?” or “am I trying to do too much in one day?”
A twenty-something who lives for traveling.
I mean digging for hidden gems, learning public transportation without speaking the language, checking off bucket list moments, and sometimes hitting three countries in one week.
It started when I studied abroad in Milan, cramming weekends with Ryanair flights, risky hotel rooms, and a backpack stuffed to the brim. Since then, I’ve taken every chance I can to keep exploring and get better at doing it well.
I genuinely love the search — the late-night digging, comparing, clicking through maps and menus until something finally feels right.
My travel style lives somewhere between backpacking and luxury. The goal is always the best experience for the money spent.
Staying comfortable and present in every place. The trip is the point — not just the destination.
How to plan better trips. How to maximize your budget. How to see beautiful, incredible things and leave inspired to book your next adventure.
The name comes from my favorite part of a trip — the in-between.
Warm, colorful, and romantic — a fairytale town frozen in time.
Seville is warm, colorful, and romantic. With tile and warm brick illuminated by golden sunlight, lush gardens filled with orange trees, and every corner bursting with flamenco culture, Seville feels like a fairytale town frozen in time.
Plaza de España — a sweeping tiled plaza where arches glow gold at sunset.
My most memorable moment in Seville was wandering through the stunning Plaza de España during golden hour and discovering some local flamenco dancers performing underneath the arches. We watched for an hour, completely mesmerized by the moment.
Street flamenco under the arches of Plaza de España — completely unplanned, completely unforgettable.
Plaza de España · The orange trees of Seville · The iconic tiled bridges
✦ ✦ ✦Seville is small and walkable — you can get almost everywhere on foot. This is a three-day weekend itinerary designed to move at a relaxed pace while hitting the city’s best moments. Further details on every place mentioned are provided at the bottom.
Arrive late morning or early afternoon and drop your bags before heading straight into the historic center. Start with the Catedral de Sevilla — make sure to go inside. It is stunning, and it is also where Christopher Columbus is buried, which adds an additional layer of historical significance. Afterwards, climb La Giralda for sweeping views over the entire city. Then wander through Barrio Santa Cruz and soak in the gorgeous architecture and calm atmosphere.
For your first evening, visit the iconic wooden structure Metropol Parasol (also known as Setas de Seville) and see the iconic “I Love Seville” sign at the top. Getting a bird’s-eye view the first evening gives you a completely different perspective of the city. If you prefer a rooftop bar, La Terraza de EME or Antico Lobby offer similar perspectives.
The cathedral’s gilded altar · The tomb of Christopher Columbus
Dinner is around 8:30, so lean into the late schedule. For tapas, Eslava, Pan y Circo, San Marco, La Brunilda, and Bar Postiguillo Tapas are all solid options depending on the vibe you want. For drinks, El Rinconcillo is the oldest bar in Seville. Street flamenco is amazing and feels authentic, but you can also book a show — La Carbonería has a free show with a drink purchase and gets packed. There is also underground flamenco, or a traditional tablao where you can order sherry cocktails — wine from the south of Spain.
Start at the Royal Alcázar of Seville — book in advance. The gardens are lush and gorgeous and absolutely worth the reservation. From there, walk south into Parque de María Luisa and continue to Plaza de España. Don’t forget to take a ride in one of the Plaza’s iconic rowboats to give your feet a rest.
Horse carriages at the Plaza · Alcázar interior · Alcázar gardens
After the Plaza, walk along the river and stop at Torre del Oro for a quick visit before heading back toward the old town for tapas and drinks. Spend the evening at El Rinconcillo, explore Calle Betis, or bar hop and socialize.
Torre del Oro glowing along the Guadalquivir at dusk.
Sunday should feel slow. Visit Palacio de las Dueñas if you want one last architectural stop, or simply wander. Churros are a must — especially at Bar El Comercio. Leave in the evening and grab a taxi to the airport, which takes about 20–25 minutes.
Wandering Parque de María Luisa · Metropol Parasol
✦ ✦ ✦Fly into Seville Airport and take a taxi, Uber, or the bus into the city center — about 20–25 minutes. The buses offer tap to pay, making public transportation affordable and easily accessible. Stay near the cathedral or in Barrio Santa Cruz so you can walk everywhere. Look for boutique hotels or Airbnbs with interior courtyards or rooftop views.
✦ ✦ ✦Plaza de España
A sweeping, tiled plaza built for the 1929 Ibero-American Exposition, where bridges curve over the canal and the arches glow at sunset.
Catedral de Sevilla
The largest Gothic cathedral in the world, monumental in scale and detail, and the resting place of Christopher Columbus.
La Giralda
Once a Moorish minaret, now the cathedral’s bell tower, offering wide rooftop views after a slow, winding climb.
Barrio Santa Cruz
The former Jewish quarter filled with narrow alleyways, hidden courtyards, and quiet pockets of shade.
Metropol Parasol / Setas de Seville
A dramatic wooden structure rising above the old town, giving you a modern contrast and panoramic views.
Royal Alcázar of Seville
A palace of intricate tilework, archways, and lush gardens that reflect the city’s Moorish past. Book in advance.
Parque de María Luisa
A shaded park filled with palms, fountains, and quiet walking paths.
Torre del Oro
A golden-hued watchtower along the river that once guarded the city.
Palacio de las Dueñas
An elegant historic palace with peaceful courtyards and layered history.
Eslava
Known for creative tapas that feel refined but still rooted in tradition.
Pan y Circo
A casual neighborhood spot that feels easy and unpretentious.
San Marco
Italian dishes served inside a historic setting, blending cultures in the heart of Seville.
La Brunilda
A lively tapas restaurant ideal for sharing plates and lingering over dinner.
Bar Postiguillo Tapas
Traditional Spanish tapas served in a classic setting near the cathedral.
La Terraza de EME
A rooftop bar with cathedral views and a front-row seat to golden hour.
Antico Lobby
An elevated terrace with a slightly more modern feel and relaxed evening energy.
El Rinconcillo
The oldest bar in Seville, lined with historic tiles and full of old-world character.
Calle Betis
A riverside stretch known for its nightlife, colorful facades, and late-evening energy.
Bar El Comercio
A classic Seville café known for crisp churros and thick hot chocolate. A Sunday morning must.
La Carbonería
An intimate flamenco venue where performances feel raw and close to the audience. Free show with a drink purchase — gets packed, so arrive early.
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Sun-washed, cinematic, and built on seven hills above the Tagus River.
Lisbon feels sun-washed and cinematic. Pastel buildings cascade down steep hills toward the Tagus River, yellow trams rattle through narrow streets, and tiled facades catch the light at every turn. The city offers beauty from every angle — from the blue water of the coastline, to hilltop overlooks featuring whitewashed buildings and terracotta tiled roofs.
Lisbon from above — terracotta rooftops cascading toward the Tagus River.
One of my most memorable moments in Lisbon was sitting at a viewpoint overlooking the city with a glass of sangria while the sun set behind the hillside of clustered clay rooftops. The river reflected the fading light, musicians played nearby, and the hills of Lisbon slowly turned warm orange as evening settled in.
The Tagus River at the waterfront — waves lapping the boardwalk, the 25 de Abril Bridge stretching into the distance.
A canopy of color over Lisbon’s streets · Azulejo-tiled facades · Cobblestones in Alfama
✦ ✦ ✦Further explanations of destinations mentioned in “The Plan” are provided at the bottom of this itinerary.
Arrive Friday afternoon or evening and drop your bags before heading into Alfama, Lisbon’s oldest neighborhood. The streets here wind between concrete buildings and steep staircases, and it quickly becomes clear why Lisbon is known as the city of seven hills.
Start the evening at Miradouro de Santa Luzia, one of the most beautiful viewpoints in Lisbon. The terrace is lined with traditional blue and white tiles and shaded by bougainvillea vines, opening out to sweeping views of Alfama’s rooftops and the Tagus River beyond. Order a glass of sangria from the small kiosk nearby and find a place along the railing as the city begins to glow in the soft evening light. As the sun sets, musicians often gather and the atmosphere becomes quietly magical.
Afterwards, wander Alfama’s narrow streets and find dinner nearby. For traditional Portuguese petiscos and a chance to hear live Fado, Bela is one of the authentic, laid-back spots locals point you toward — the kind of place where the music feels spontaneous rather than staged. Parreirinha de Alfama is another classic, tucked on a quiet street corner that most people walk past without noticing, coming alive at night with local fadistas. If you’d rather skip the show and just eat well, Farol de Santa Luzia is a reliable seafood spot right in the heart of the neighborhood, and Antiga Wine Bar is a well-reviewed spot in Alfama for petiscos and wine. Book ahead if you can — evenings fill up fast.
Rossio’s iconic wave-patterned cobblestones · Colorful riverside installations along the Tagus
Saturday is perfect for seeing Lisbon’s main sights. Because the city is built on steep hills, walking around can feel like a bit of a workout, so this itinerary is intentionally designed to move downhill through the city.
Start the morning high above Lisbon at Castelo de São Jorge, the hilltop castle overlooking the city’s red rooftops and the Tagus River. The views from the castle stretch across the entire city and are one of the best ways to understand Lisbon’s layout. You’ll also likely notice the castle’s resident peacocks wandering the grounds, bringing colorful life and charm to the historic ruins.
From there, walk downhill toward Miradouro de Santa Luzia and the surrounding streets of Alfama before hopping on Tram 28, Lisbon’s famous yellow tram that winds through the historic neighborhoods. The ride itself is part of the experience as it climbs steep hills and squeezes through narrow streets. In its charming vintage style, Tram 28 gives an authentic introduction to Lisbon’s architecture and sights.
Depart Tram 28 near the center of the city and wander Rua Augusta, Lisbon’s lively pedestrian shopping street filled with cafés, boutiques, and street performers. Continue walking until the street opens up beneath the Arco da Rua Augusta, the monumental arch that frames the entrance to Praça do Comércio.
Praça do Comércio is Lisbon’s massive riverfront square, surrounded by warm yellow buildings and opening directly onto the Tagus River. Spend some time here wandering the arcades or sitting along the water before finding a rooftop bar or riverside terrace for sunset drinks.
At some point during the day, make sure to stop for a Pastel de Nata, Portugal’s iconic custard pastry. The flaky pastry and caramelized custard filling are one of Lisbon’s most famous treats and are best enjoyed warm with a coffee.
One of Castelo de São Jorge’s resident peacocks · The castle walls · Climbing Lisbon’s steep hills by tram
The ornate Arco da Rua Augusta — the gateway between Rua Augusta and Praça do Comércio.
The column of Dom Pedro IV rising over Rossio Square · Portuguese ceramics for sale along the streets
Sunday gives you an opportunity to pick your pace. Start the morning with brunch at Dear Breakfast or another café nearby, then wander the hills of Lisbon one last time, stopping at viewpoints or streets you might have missed earlier in the trip.
If you want one final scenic moment before leaving, walk along the river near Praça do Comércio or take a short ferry across the water. From the river you get a clear view of the 25 de Abril Bridge, Lisbon’s red suspension bridge stretching across the Tagus.
Leave Lisbon in the afternoon or evening and head to the airport or train station.
Sunday morning coffee · A quiet Alfama side street
✦ ✦ ✦Stay in Alfama, Baixa, or Chiado so you can easily walk to Lisbon’s main sights. Alfama offers the most atmospheric experience, with winding streets, historic buildings, and viewpoints tucked between staircases.
One thing to know is that many of Alfama’s streets are too narrow for cars, which adds to the charm but can make arrivals a little adventurous. You may need to walk the last few blocks to your hotel over cobblestones and steep hills, but the tradeoff is a quieter neighborhood that feels completely different from the rest of the city.
Lisbon Airport is about twenty minutes from the city center by taxi or Uber. The metro is also simple and affordable if you are traveling light.
Lisbon’s hills are part of what makes the city so beautiful, but they also mean exploring can feel like a bit of a workout. Comfortable shoes make a big difference.
✦ ✦ ✦Miradouro de Santa Luzia
A tiled terrace viewpoint overlooking Alfama’s rooftops and the Tagus River.
Castelo de São Jorge
A hilltop castle offering sweeping views across Lisbon and home to several resident peacocks.
Tram 28
Lisbon’s classic yellow tram route winding through the city’s historic neighborhoods.
Rua Augusta
A lively pedestrian street lined with cafés, shops, and street performers.
Arco da Rua Augusta
The monumental arch connecting Rua Augusta to Lisbon’s main square.
Praça do Comércio
A grand waterfront square that once served as Lisbon’s gateway during the Age of Discovery.
Bela
A laid-back Alfama staple for traditional petiscos, Portuguese wine, and live Fado that feels spontaneous rather than performative.
Parreirinha de Alfama
A tucked-away fado house on a quiet street corner that comes alive at night with local fadistas.
Farol de Santa Luzia
A reliable seafood spot in the heart of Alfama for classic Portuguese fish and shellfish.
Antiga Wine Bar
A well-reviewed spot in Alfama for petiscos and Portuguese wine.
Dear Breakfast
A popular Lisbon brunch café known for great coffee and relaxed mornings.
Pastel de Nata
Portugal’s famous custard pastry with flaky crust and caramelized filling.
25 de Abril Bridge
Lisbon’s suspension bridge stretching across the Tagus River.
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